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克里斯解释说:“这就像冲浪——你无法控制波涛汹涌的大海,只能乘浪而行。
当然,你总希望波浪按照自己的心意来,但很多时候,来什么样的浪,你就得赶什么样的浪。”
对于克里斯的这席话,我虽不完全赞同,但我想,他认为生活是由一连串的事件构成——有好也有坏。
不论你处理问题的能力有多高,总有些影响生活的因素是你无法控制的。
真正有成就的人总会对意料之外的事作好准备,并随时准备调整——要知道,生活总是需要不断调整的。
我们会想念马克,就像你会想念那个邻居、那个毕业的孩子或新郎(新娘)一样。
但是,与其沉湎于分离的悲伤中,还不如寄希望于一个更加光明的未来——为他,也为我们自己。
这样,我们就会走出悲伤的阴影,全力以赴地去实现美好的明天。
PleaseexcusemeifI’malittlepeoday.Markisleaving,andI’mfeelingkindofsad.
Youprobablydon’tknowMark,butyoumightbeluoughtoklikehiHe’sbeeandsouloftheofficeforacoupleofyears,biningexemplaryprofessionalskillswithasweetledisposition.He’shatiiheterrificworkhedoes.Hejustwantstodohisjob,andtodoitsuperblywell.
Andnowhe’smovingoingnewprofessionalopportunity.Itsoucouldbetheceofalifetime,andwe’regenuinely,sincerelypleasedforhiButthatdoesaosaygoodbyetoadearfriendandtrustedcolleague.
Lifehasawaythesecurveballsatus.Justwheogetfortableersouatiohioaltertherecipe.Aterrifiovesaway.Athefamilygraduates.Anotherdsnewloveandloyaltiesthre.Thefamily’sprincipalbread-winnerislaidoff.
Ourabilitytocopewithddisruptioree,ourpeaessainlife.
Buthowdohilosophershavesideredthequestiouries,andtheirresponseshavebeenvaried.AgtotheauthoroftheBiblicalbookofEcclesiastes,fortbefouhat“tthereisaseason,aoeverypurposeuheheaven.”
KahlilGibranurgedhislisteodayembracethepastwithremembrahefuturewithlonging.”
Afriendofminewhowoverisfhisfellowbureaucratsthat“survivabilitydependsuponadaptability.”
Ahere’sChris,theiasurf-rat,whoooldmethattheaolife’sproblemsbesummedupinfowiththeflow.”
“It’slikesurfing,”
Chrisexplained,“You’taheo.Wavesjusthappen.Youridewaveswheretheytakeyou.Sure,you’realiwavewhereyouget,butmostlyyoujusttakewavesthewaytheye.”
I’mlysure,butIthinkChriswassayingthatlifeisaseriesofevents—bothgoodandbad.Nomatterhowdeftyanizationalskills,therewillalwaysbelife-influengfactorsoverwhichyouhavenotrol.Thetrulysuccessfulpersoheued,aomakeadjustmentsshouldthealmostalwaysdoes.
&omissMark,justlikeyou’llmissthathatgraduate,orthatherthahesadness,we’llfoourhhterfuture—forhim,andforus.Andthenwe’llgooutahiomakethatfuturehappen.
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