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Ifyouexpeethingtoturnoutbad，itprobablywill.Pessimismisseldomdisappoihesameprinciplealsoworksinreverse.Ifyouexpectgoodthingstohappen，theyusuallydo!Thereseemstobeanaturald-effectrelatioimismandsuccess.
Optimismandpessimismarebothpowerfulfordeaustchooseanttoshapeouroutlookaions.Thereisenoughgoodandbadineveryone'slife—amplesorroiness，suffitjoyandpain—tofindarationalbasisforeitheroptimismorpessimisWechoosetolaughorcry，blessorcurse.It'sourdewhichperspectivedowewanttovieelookupinhopeordownindespair?
Ibelieveintheupwardlook.Ichoosetohighlightthepositiveandsliprightative.Iamanoptimistbyuature.Sure，Iknowthatsorrowexists.Iaminmy70snow，andI'velivedthroughmorethanonecrisis.Butwhenallissaidanddone，Ifindthatthegoodiweighsthebad.
Anoptimisticattitudeisnotaluxury;it'sahewayyoulookatlifewilldeterminehowyoufeel，howyouperform，andhoillgetalongwithotherpeople.versely，s，attitudes，aiohemselves;theybeeaself-fulfillingprophecy.Pessimismcreatesadismalplaooolive.
Yearsago，Idroveiatiosomegas.Itwasabeautifulday，andIwasfeeli.AsIwalkediiontas，theattendantsaidtome，"Howdoyoufeel?"Thatseemedlikeaion，butIfeltfioldhimso."Youdon'tlookwell."hereplied.Thistookmepletelybysurprise.Alittlelesstly，ItoldhimthatIhader.WithouthesitatioiellmehowbadIlookedandthatmyskinappearedyellow.
BythetimeIlefttheservi，Iwasfeelingalittleuneasy.Aboutablockaulledovertothesideoftheroadtolookatmyfathemirror.HowdidIfeel?WasIjaundiced?Waseverythingallright?BythetimeIgothome，Iwasbeginlequeasy.DidIhaveabadliver?HadIpieraredisease?
&imeIwentintothatgasstation，feelingfineagain，Ifiguredouteheplacehadretlybeenpaintedabright，biliousyellow，areflegoffthewallsmadeeveryoneinsidelookasthoughtheyhadhepatitis!IwonderedhowmanyotherfolkshadreactedthewayIdid.Ihadletoversationwithatergemyattitudeforaireday.HetoldmeIlookedsidbef，Iwasactuallyfeelingsick.ThatsiiveobservationhadaprofouhewayIfeltandacted.
&hingmorepowerfulthaivismisapositiveaffirmation，awordofoptimismandhope.OhingsIammostthankfulforisthefactthatIhavegrownupinanationwithagrandtraditionofoptimisWheureadoptsanupwardlook，ihingsbeaplished.Whentheworldisseenasahopeful，positiveplace，peopleareempotandtoachieve.
Optimismdoesn'tobenaive.Weoptimistandstillreizethatproblemsexistandthatsomeofthemareheasily.Butwhatadiffereimismmakesiudeoftheproblemsolver!Optimismdivertsourattentiativismaopositive，struking.Whenyou'reanoptimist，you'remoreedwithproblem-solvingthanwithuselessgaboutissues.Infaism，issuesasbigandongoiyhaveion.Ittakesadreamer—someohpletelyoptimisticideas，greatpersistenlimitedce—totathatbig.It'syourchoice.
如果你预料某事会很糟糕，那么它很可能真会这样。
悲观的想法一般都会成真。
反之亦然，如果你料想会好运连连，通常也会这样！
乐观和成功之间似乎有一种天然的因果关系。
乐观和悲观都有强大的力量，我们塑造和展望未来，就必须从中作出选择。
每个人的生命中都有很多的幸运或灾难——充满着忧伤和快乐、狂喜和痛苦——不论我们是悲观还是乐观，都有充分的理由。
我们可以选择哭或笑、祝福或诅咒，这是我们的决定。
选择用什么样的眼光来看待人生，是在希望中昂首阔步，还是在绝望中低头长叹？
我喜欢展望未来。
我选择注意积极面，忽视消极面。
我之所以是个乐观主义者，更多的是因为我的选择，而非天性。
当然，我知道，生命中总存在着悲伤。
现在，我已经70多岁了，经历过太多灾难，但当一切尘埃落定，我发现生命中的美好远多于丑恶。
乐观的态度并非奢侈品，而是必需品。
看待生活的方式决定了你如何去感受、去表现，以及你与他人如何相处。
相反，消极的思想、态度和预想也决定了这些，它们成为一种能自我实现的预言。
悲观会使生活阴沉下来，没有人愿意活在其中。
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