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第36章坚强有力的支持
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&readinglight：tobetheirrorthatreflectit.
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Yousupportsomeonewhenyouwillinglystepforwardtohelphimthroughagtime.Yetthegreatironyisthatwhenyousupportothers，youarealso，infact，suppyourself.Whenyouwithholdsupportfromothers，itisusuallyanindicatorthatyouarealsowithholdingsupportfromyourself.
&ofteosupportothersinfriendship.Oneofmyaa，toldmeastoryretlythatclearlyillustratesthemagicofsupportanditspotentialasaionalmirror.
Severalyearsago，Donnahadbeenfeelingverydepressed.Shehadjustbrokenupwithherboyfriendoftwoyears，andshewashavingaverydifficulttimeagtheloss.Shehadbeenlaidupwithakneeinjuryforseveraldays，aimealoainlywasnothelping.Hermiserywasonlypourationatherselffornotbeiopullittogetherandstallthetime.
Early，Donnareceivedaphohapieceofterriblefriend’sbrotherhadbeenkilledinacarat.Donnahadknownthisfriend，Mary，aherirelife，andthenewswasdevastating.However，Donnaquicklypulledherselftotintheddrovetoherfrieherewithher.
&hecourseofthefewdays，amidstthehazeofthefuneralandhundredsofvisitors，DonnaertpresentforMary.Sheheldherclosewhileshedlesstears，satbyhersideasthewavesofgriefwashedoverherfriend，aheflooroMary’sbedtomakesureshedidnotalohemiddleofthenight.Duringthattimeshehardlyfeltanypaiallahedepressionshehadbeenexperieng.
Severalweekslater，wheoreturntonormal，DohatthelevelofsupportshehadgivenMaryfarexysupportshehadofferedherselfduriime.Shewasabletousethesupportshehadgivenherfriendasamirrorforthesupportshehadbeenwithholdingfromherself.Sherealizedthatherowntearsrequiredasmutifromherasahatifshecouldgiveittoanother，shemustbeabletoalsogiveittoherself...
So，whenyoufindyourselfuosupportsomeoneelse，lookwithinandseeifperhapsthereissomethingwithiyouaren.versely，wheesupporttoothers，itwillmirrorthoseplayouthatrequirethesamelevelofattention.
传播光明的方法有两种：要么做一根蜡烛，要么做一面镜子去反射它的光芒。
——沃顿
他人身处困境时，你主动帮他渡过难关，你就是在支持他。
或许你不会想到，你帮助他人的同时，也是在帮你自己。
拒绝对他人施以援手，其实也是拒绝帮助自己。
朋友之间最需要相互支持。
前几天，我认识的一个熟人唐娜给我讲了一个故事，故事清楚地阐明了支持的魔力及其作为情感之镜的潜在效应。
几年前，唐娜一度委靡不振。
那时，她和相恋两年的男朋友刚刚分手，这让她难以承受。
接着，她又因膝盖受伤卧床数日，当然，孤独在家的日子，对她的身心毫无益处。
她无法控制这种局面，因而痛苦不堪，整天懊恼、伤心、泪流满面。
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