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令我惊奇的是,我说出了她想要对我说的话:“您知道的,祖母,无论怎样管教孩子,只要他不明白其中的道理,一切都是徒劳。”
她非常高兴在我们讨论之后,我能有自己的见解。
我任由祖母对我夸奖了一番。
我想她是运用了一个准则:“强调积极,排除消极。”
还有《圣经》中的话:“所见即所想。”
我认为这是一条真理,因为我的祖母确实当面夸我。
当我感到绝望或是希望落空时,祖母的话就会在我的耳边萦绕:“孩子,内心垮了才是真的垮了。”
“心中要永存希望——总会找到答案……如果你去寻找,你就会发现,其实答案就在你心里。”
这些准则总结起来就是:“振作起来,开始干吧!”
现在,我们中的许多年轻人,更倾向于以一位有钱人的身份来解决人生中的许多问题。
我们总是不想动脑筋来解决自己的问题,但我们一旦这样做了,就会发现一个非常重要而有趣的规则:“年轻人的使命就是好好生活和学习,让明天的世界更美好。”
Whilesomepeoplearebornintolovingandgfamilies,othersarebornintoseeminglyimpossibleenomatterhoerson'slife,IbelievetherewillalwaysbeatleastonepersonwhowillpositivelyinfluencetheForme,thatpersonhasbeenmygrandmother.
TherearemanylawsoflifethatIcouldwriteaboutbecausemygraerknownas"Mamma")literallyaeachestheselawstome.However,shealwaysendswith,"Son,ItellyouallIknowandallI'veexperieultimatelyyouareresponsibleforyourchoiately,weallmakeourownlife—goodorbad.Notmakingachoiceisaitself.Thelawofchoieintrol,butitalsoplasibilityohechoice.
&heremustbealawthatsaysyoubeelikethoseyouhangaroundbeI'mwithmymamma,Iukalike(atleastI'dliketothinkso).Wewere"visiting"onedaywhenIwasaboutfourteenyearsold.Ihadgottenintotroubleforsomethingathome(whisurewasn'tmyfault),andMammalistealkandtalk.Afterawhile,shebegahme,ahentomysurprise,Iheardmyselfsaysomethishemighthavesaidtome.Isaid,"Youknow,Mamma,nomatterhowachildisdised,itwilldonogooduhechildreceivesthethatisinthedise."SheleasedtoheartheinsightthatafterdisgtheaspectsofwhatIhaddisyown.Iallowedhert"onmeawhile.Ithihelawof"atuatethepositive,elimiive"orastheBiblesaysinNumbers14,"whatyouseeiswhatyouget."Ihopethatthat'satruelawbecausemymammasuresayswsaboutme—tome.
WhenI'mfeelinghpletelyfrustrated,IhearMamma'swords"Son,you'reilyou'rewhippedi;and"nothihere'salwaysananswer…Ifyoulookforit,you'llfinditinsideyourself."Theselawssimplysay,"Getupagoing!
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Now,mostofusteenagerspreferaolife'sproblemsintheformofafinanerousperson.Wedon'talwayswanttouseourmindstosolveourproblems,butefiantandwonderfullawthatsays,"Youthisfaomaketomorrow'slace."
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