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妮可儿说,“但是,我们现在好像成了客套的熟人了。”
友谊会起变化是很正常的事,两个朋友往往会慢慢疏远。
当其中一人试图维系,而另一个打算放弃的时候,友谊就出现问题了。
如果你的朋友不愿意重归于好,那就接受这个事实,继续自己的生活吧。
但是,如果你有能力修复,那么,你就会拥有这样一份友谊——牢固而又真挚。
JessidJoycewerebestfriendsinjuheydidalmtogether.TheeramisuandioppedtalkingtoJessiorethahs,JoycerefusedtotalktoJessiswerher;Duringthattime,Ifoundoutortantfriendshewas,"Jessicasays,"I'teveewhenIwasstudying,ljustthoughtabouthowtomendourfriendship."
&semester,Jessicatriedagain.Thistime,Joycewaswillingtoworkitout.Ittooksometimea,butthefriendship>
Mostofushavesufferedthepainofbrokenfriendships.Butthegoodhatmostfriendshipsded.
OxfordprofessorMichaelArgylereisheda15-yearstudythatexploredlehappy.Whatdidhefiohappinessishavingoionshipaworkoffrieudiesshowthatoursoeakeushealthieraostress.Maintaininglong-lastihyfriendshipisworththeeffort!
Ifthere'sabrokenfriendshipyou'dliketomend,trythefollo>
Giveyourfrieofthedoubt.
It'seasytoassumetheworst.Butifafriendhashurtyou,hemaynotevenrealizehe'sdoneso.
Matt,anAmeridoctoralstudewofriendshipsbrokenbyhurtfulwords.Bothrelatioerhealed.
"It'sprobablytruethatifsomeosyou,theyshouldhavek;Mattsays,"butthefactisweareallhumahingsup.Youogivepeoplethebehedoubtbecauseyouwill,aswell."
&iativetouhyourfriend.
Ifyou'vebeenhurt,yourinstinctisprobablytopullarotectyourself.Butifyoudothis,thefriendshipwilllikelydie.
"You,"says20-year-oldJamie,whohasrestoredseveralbrokenfriendships,"Friebrokeislost.Bothfrieoreaddemoheyaretrustworthy."
&hefirsttoapologize.
Evenifyouwerehurt,apoly.
Giveupyhttht.Otherwisethefli'tbefotten,asitshouldbe.
Walkthroughtheflicttogether.
Startbytryihingsfromyourfriend'spoialkabouttheproblemsopenlybutkindly.Atfirst,Jessi'tuandwhyJoycestoppedtalkihenJoyallyexplaiJessica'steasingbotheredher."Ifinallyfoundoutshewasaeasedherinfrontoftheboysinourclass."Jessied.Jessiothieasingandthoughtitshouldn'tbotherJoyce.ButtedthatitwasembarrassingtoJoyce,shestopped.Thentheirfriendshipcouldheal.
Niichellehadbeefriendssincepreschool.Butinichellesuddenlypulledaway."Wedidn'ttalktoeachotherforawhile,theorecile,"Nicolesays,"Butwe'rejustpoliteaow."
It'snormalforfriendshipstoge.Oftedriftapart.Problemsewheriestohangoherfriesgo.
Ifyourfriendisn'twillingtsout,acdmoveon.Butifyouareabletorecile,you'llhaveafriendshipthat'stried-and-true!
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