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我们不愿在公众面前承认,我们也知道自己个人生活的许多方面是可以做得更好的。
这样会使“通过自我交谈能使我们趋于完善”
这一观点在现实生活中得以实现。
如果你性格内向,想和邻居、朋友一样成为善于交际的人,你需要做的就是和自己交谈。
诚挚而满怀感情地对自己说:“我能和他一样,我是个天生的演讲家。
我的确喜欢人们,喜欢随心所欲地与大家畅谈。
我必须时刻准备好聆听或发言。”
如果你爱一个人,并想让他或她知道,那么就告诉自己:“我全身心地爱她,我清楚,她是我的唯一。
倘若不让她知道,这对我来说不公平。
每个人都希望得到别人的爱,她也不例外。”
这不过是我举的一些例子,如何去表白由你自己决定。
若你对做好一切很有信心,那没有比自我交谈更好的激励方法了。
因此,开始与自我交谈吧。
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