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不必以牙还牙，他们的行为根本不会对你造成任何影响。
把你内心的坚强表现出来，展示出他们所没有的尊严吧！
痛苦来自于你对这些行为的解释和回应，而并非麻木不仁者贬低你的言行。
通常，我们会对别人的言行举止有过激且消极的反应。
这就是见己所欲见，小题大做。
就算人们确实太过分，你也可以积极地看待它，或对他们的行为不予理睬，这是真正的自制。
失去身体的一部分并不是生命的终结。
也许是你熟悉的职业的终结，但也可能是你新事业的开始，也许不尽然。
如果著名的史蒂芬·霍金可以通过电脑说话，如果一个打高尔夫的人仍可以用金属手臂打球，那么失去双臂或双腿的教练也就可以找到其他指导的方法。
当你失去希望，当你绝望，总是抱怨他人，甚至不想去尝试和坚持时，你就为自己选择了一种毫无意义的生活。
如果你以消极的态度对待每天的生活，那么智力、想象、教育、知识、智慧、经验、能力和才华，又有什么价值呢？
我引申一下作者在教堂传单上的话：态度可以决定一个人的成败。
要么你学会掌控自己的态度，要么甘心受其摆布。
IwasattendingaseminarinSydneyinAprilandpickedupaleote.Initwasarefle"Attitude".
ðeanonymouswriter：
"ThelongerIlive，themoreIrealizetheimpactofattitudeoude，tome，ismoreimportantthanfact.Itismoreimportantthahaion，thahanfailures，thahaneoplethinkorsayordo.Itismoreimportantthanappearaelligenceorskill.Itwillmakeorbreakapany，ae."
"Theremarkablethingiswehaveachardiudewewillembraceforthatday.Weotgethefactthatpeoplewillaaway.Weotgetheiheonlythingwedoistoplayorihatisourattitude."
"Iamcedthatlifeis10pertenstomeahowIreacttoit.Andsoitiswithyou.Youareinchargeofyourattitude."
Thismeansthathappenstoyou，itishowyoureactorrespondtoitthatisimportant.
You'ttroloriaisihquake，sabotage，terroristbombiruckbylightniraffitandsoon.Butyoutrolhowyouthisuts，evenwheheuimofa.
Youoanandgroanaboutyourmisfortuwhatyouhavelostphysicallyorfinancially.Oryouchoosetotysthatyouarestillalive，thatyouhavemostofyourphysientalfaculties.Aprolotitudewouldmakeyoumiserableandregressivewhereasagetoapositiveattitudewouldspuryoutothinkofpossibilities.
Youcouldbetauntedordisatedagainstifyoulostaleg，armoraneye.You'thelpsomeiivepeopledoingsugs.Ifyoufretoverwhatissaidandwhathasbeendeprivedofyou，doesitmakeyouaermined，perseveringorresourceful？
&titudetotakeiss，sarcasm，rudeness，ridiockerybotheryou.Whyrespoivelytosuchbehavioursofotherpeople？Itdoesn'tpaytostrikebaptuouslyattheIfyoudthatyouareemotionally>
Showthatyouareemotier，thatyoudoradeinsultswithinsults，thatwhattheysayordodoesall.Showthedignitythattheydonothave.
Thepainisnotiivepeoplesayaboutyouordotobelittleyou.Thepainisinhowyouiaosuchacts.
&eivelyover-reactto，or"read"toomuto，lesayordo.It'sacaseofseeianissueasbigwhenitcouldreallybeinsignifit.
Evenifpeopleiyaredhtinhuman，youchoosetoigheirbehaviourorall.Thatisrealselfmastery.
Losingapartofthebodyisnottheemightbetheendofacareerthatyouweretrainedinandthebeginningofaagain，itmightnot.IfthefamousStephenHaeakthroughaputergadget，ifagolferstillplaywithametalarm，thenatrainerwholosesbothlegsorarmsstillfiherwaystoteach.
Whenyoulosehope，whenyoudespair，whenyoublamepeopleallthetime，whenyoudootryahenyouakelifemeaninglessforyourself.
Whatisthevalueofi，imagiion，knowledge，wisdom，experieealentifyouadoptaudeeveryday？
Toexpandoerinthechurchleafletsaid，attitudemakeorbreakapersoheryouareinchargeoforyouleofyourattitude.
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