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不了解自己的人容易走弯路,他们的个人范畴模糊,精力不集中。
深入而准确的自我评估,可以为我们实现目标导航。
没有核心力量和明确的个人界限的引导,我们绝不可能成功,因为我们的目标是什么,或者应该怎么样,连我们自己都不清楚。
了解并尊重自己本质的人,才会开心快乐、精力集中、目标明确。
他们有基本的工具尝试新事物,树立新目标,并持之以恒地去追求。
这些人才会获得成功。
他们成功是因为每一个目标的实现,都增强了他们对自己有能力成功的信心,使他们更努力地去尝试更多。
充分的自信会产生好的结果,有充分的自信,就一定能获得成功。
&hemostimportantattributesanindividualhaveisfidenvaluableineveryareaoflife,butinbusinessorinagaisabsolutelyessential.Uherearefewplagotolearialskill.Yet,itisaskilland,assubedevelopedwiththerighttools.
&owledge.Knowledgeofyourthsandlimitations,ahearenainwhichyouwishtoexcel.Butknowledgealoneisn'tenough.Kolywhenitisvalidatedbyexperiehevalidityofwhatwethinkorbelievebyputtioactualpradgatheringdataorfeedbatheexperiehefeedbackispositive,weassumeourtheoriesaredactagly.Ifthefeedbaegative,theboldamonguswilladjustourcourse,whilethemoretimidoftenallowtheivefeedbacold.
begainedbyknowiandingalyapplyingthefollowingformulasandfactors:
(1)Knowledge+ExperieiveFeedbafidence.
(2)Positivefeedbasues.
(3)Suesaretheresultoftpradrepeatedattempts.
(4)Repeatedattemptsarepossibleonlywhenwebelievewewilleventuallysucceed.
Theformulaseemstosaythatwemustbelieveinourabilitytosucceedbeforeerienysemblanceofsudthatistrue.That'swherethekoftheesin,andwhyitisthefirstequationintheformula.Beforewebelievewewillsucceedwithmadea,wemusthavesomekowhatsutailsandwhatstrengthsandabilitieswebringtothemix.Wemustalsokhabout"failure".
Failureisofattemptingtoachieveagoalandfallingshortofthemark.Failureoweallowfallingshortofthemarktocauseust.Actually,thereareonlytwowaystofail.Giveupbefoalyoureallywantorueonapaththatiswrongforyoubeadeawroiallyaheerroneouschoiceistheostaywith.
Suppose,forexample,yougotintoyourdiafriendatanunfamiliarlo.Yougetturnedarouherea.
Infailureformulanumberoneyoudiscoveryouarelostaocorrectyourcourse.However,youaretoofaroffcourseforjustoogetyoubatraakeaionandahreeorfoursyoudecideyouwillofindyourway,soyougiveup,parkyoureverreachyourdestination.
Infailureformulawoyoudecidethateventhoughyoumadeawrongturn,youmuststickwithitbeakeaneweanyoufailedwheheihatgotyoulost.Soyouuedroad,knowingit,butrefusierationbecauseyou'vealreadymadeachoice,hitmaybe.
Bothsariossouyabsurdinthattext,buttheworldisfullofpeoplewhogiveupandquitbeftheirgoal,andwhostaywithbadchoigaftertheyhavediscoveredtheyarebad.
Toensuresuustbewillingtoalteryourdkeepalteringit,andtainandagain,asmaakes,toreachyourdestinatioheryoureaotwilldependonyourbeliefinyourabilitytoeventuallyarrive,andthatbringsusbacktotheula.
&ultimatelyknowingyourselfandyourabilities,andknowinghowtousethemmosteffectively.Ile-bustleoftoday'sworld,wesometimesfettotakeathhlookatourmostvaluableasset—ourselves.Onlywithself-awarenessaandiobelieveinourabilitytofisolutionandtoarriveatoals.
Peoplewhodon'tknowthemselvesareeasilyside-tracked.Theyhavenowell-definedpersonalboundariesaerofpower.Athhandaccurateself-assessmentprovidethepassweayontrack.Withoutaterofpoersonalbuideus,thereisnowayweachieveoalsbecausethereisnowaytoknowforsurewhatoalsare,orshouldbe.
Happy,tered,well-directedpeoplearepeoplengandhonorit.Thesearethepeoplewhohavethebasipthineersistinpursuihesearethepeoplewhosucceed.Theysucceedbecauseeveryachievedgoaliheirfaithiytosuderygreaterahings.Thehappyresultisahighdegreeofself-d,withsuffitself-ce,successis.
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