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第2章爱无处不在HowtoFindTrueLove（2）
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Atthetime，Ilivedwithabeautifulroommate.Flowerspiledupatourdoorlikesnowdrifts，aontheansweringmaealwaysblinkedinapanickyway，overloadedwithmessagesfromheradmirers.Limousiside，withdateswaitingforherbehindtintedwindows.Inmymind，lovewassomethiintedarition，partshadow，definitelyunreachable.Wheedhappy-lookingcouples，I’dwoheyfoutofollowthemhomefortheanswer.
AfterafewyearsiyIgotmydreamjaboutweddingsfazinecalled7Days。
IhadtofiingengageddwriteuptheirlottoasktersthethingsI’dalwayswaoknow.
Ifouoothequestion“Howdoyouknowit’slove？”
Youkheeverydaythingssurroundiheshadeoflightinthesky，abowlofstrawberries—suddehakiy.
Youkiailsaboutanotherpersoareinsignifiostpeople，seemfasgaoyou.Ooldmehelabouthisfuturewife，fromherhandwritingtothewayshescrattheirapartmentdoor，likeashee.Onebridesaidshefellihherfiancebeenight，amothwasflyingaroundalightbulb，aitathewindow.Isaid，‘That’sit.He’stheguy.’”
Youalsoknowit’slovewhenyou’tstoptalkiher.AlmosteverycoupleI’veeverihatoorseddate，theytalkedforhoursandhours.Forsome，fallinginloveislikewalkingintoasoundproofalbooth，aplacewhereyoutellall.Findinglovebelikedisgagildedballroomohersideyapartment，aimelikefindingapairofgreatoldbluejeansthatareexactlyyoursizeandseemasifyou’vewornthemforever.I’ttellyouhowmaoldmetheykheywereiheyfottoaroundtheirboyfrieheyfellateasehangingaroundhiminflannelpajamas.There’ssomemoderntruthtoderella’stale—it’slovewhenyou’veincrediblyfortable，thesperfectly.
Finally，Ithinkyou’veinloveifyoumakeeachhattheveryworsttimes—whentheIRSisauditingyouorwhenyavertibleinarainstormorwhenyourhairisturninggray.Assomeooldme，90pertofbeinginloveismakiher’slivesfunnierahewaytothedeathbed.
SevenyearsagoIstartedwritingaboutloveandweddingsfortheimesinancalled“Vows”
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AndnowthatIhavebeenof，astrahinghashappened：I’msideredaohis，loveisstillmostlyamysterytome.TheonlythingIfidentlysayisthis：Loveisasplentifulasoxygen.Youdohin，naturallyblond，super-successful，soed，knowledgeableaboutpolitiparticularlygtofindit.
&ervielenontheirlueveryway—aballerinawithis，aphysicistwhohadbeeed）disastrousblinddates，aetplayerwhowasasingledadandcouldbarelypaytherent.Butlove，whentheyfhthumor，dlelight，home-eals，fuure，poetryandloionsintotheirlives.
Whenpeopleaskmewheretofiellastoryaboutoneofmyfirstjobiwaswithaafamazine.Ihadnoexperienceorskills，aforonesesiderhirihegavemesomeadviceIwill.Hesaid，“Gooutintotheworld.Workhardaeonwhatyoulovet.Ifyoubeegood，wewillfindyou.”
That’seoplelookingforlovetowaitforthat“Iwoery”
feeling-ait！
Doiclesaboutho，seduotizeamate.Don’tworryaboutyourlipstickht，becauseit’snotgoingtomatter.Justliveyourlifewell，takecareofyourself，anddooomuch.Lovewillfindyou.
&uallyiteve28，Imetmyhusband.Atastatioore，Iwasbuyierribbon，andhewaslookingatFilofaxes.Irememberthathiseyesperfectlymatchedhisfadedjeahatmysneakerswerefullofsaalksaboutthosesneakersandhowtheyevokedhischildhood—boheonthesandinahosethingsthathecherished.
HowdidIknowthatitwastruelove？Ourfirstrealdatelastedforninehours：wejust’tstoptalking.Ihadodanmylife，butIcewithhim，perfestep.Ihavelear’slovewhenyoufinallystoveryourtoes.
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Ihaveetocherishwritingthe“Vows”
oryIhear，Ihaveproofthatlove，optimism，guts，grace，perfeersandgoodlufact，exist.Love，inmyopinion，isnotafantasy，uffofromanovelsorfairytales.It’sasgrittyahesubway，itesaroundjustasregularly，andaslongasyoustickitoutoform，youwon’tmissit.
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